Have you ever been completely stuck between two choices? You go back and forth. You make a list of pros and cons. You talk it over with someone you trust. You think about it some more. And then you change your mind. Again. You might even start wondering, Why can't I just make a decision? What's wrong with me? Sometimes, though, the problem isn't that you don't know what you want. Sometimes, the problem is that you don't think you're allowed to want what you want. I was remind