Are you really  just shy, or did you grow up in an environment where it didn’t feel safe to speak your mind? So many of the personality traits we carry — from people pleasing to perfectionism — are actually trauma responses that became habits. They served a purpose: to help us survive emotionally or physically in overwhelming situations. But over time, these responses can start to feel like part of who we are… even when they’re no longer helping us. In this post, we’ll explor